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Vacations Can Be Anxiety Provoking When You Have an Eating Disorder!
Written by Ilissa Banhazl, MFT
Vacations can be extremely anxiety provoking for those dealing with an
eating disorder. Your environment changes, the foods you have available are
different, eating times may vary, and you’re out there socially.
All these changes can be very disturbing. I suggest you are open with the
people you travel with so that they can be more sensitive and supportive. If
possible, plan ahead by bringing some familiar foods. It’s always a good
idea to view your trip as a challenge, an opportunity to grow. Push yourself
through your fear and discomfort and try letting go of controlling your
environment and give in to this new adventure.
It’s probably a good idea to bring along your journal so when times are
tough you can sit quietly and give your feelings away to the paper. You can
always take time out to meditate or stretch on vacation if that helps you
center yourself before you start out on your day of fun. Walking as much as
you can on your trip can be a great outlet for your stress.
When you get home from your vacation; pat yourself on the back for this big
accomplishment. If your trip didn’t go very well this time then don’t beat
yourself up. Think of it as a learning curve. What worked for you, what
didn’t? What can you do differently next time? Can you plan ahead for
difficult times? Can you bring some transitional objects that remind you of
home or keep a lucky charm in your pocket to rub when you’re feeling
overwhelmed?
Breaking your routine and getting away although promising lots of fun or
adventure can be anxiety provoking for those who do not have an eating
disorder. There’s always a transition. It can take people more than a day to
relax so make sure you’ve allotted enough time to really let down and enjoy
yourself. Don’t plan to be away for too many days because that might overly
stress you out.
Next time you plan a trip, keep the agenda moderate so you don’t feel
overwhelmed. Travel with “safe people” and see if you can enjoy a vacation,
even though you have an eating disorder. It’s a wonderful opportunity for
self growth!
Ilissa is a marriage and family psychotherapist in Glendora CA. You can
reach her by visiting
www.ilissabanhazlmft.com
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